If you took note of my previous blog about Spring...you would sense that I am not ready to put go out and plant flowers....well, ready or not, my dear spouse invited me to take a trip to the store with him day before yesterday. I was tired and did not want to remove myself from my couch and was really reluctant to comply with his wishes! But, I got to thinking..how sweet, he desires my company..so I drug myself up off the couch and went along, supposedly just for the ride....
We get to the parking lot and he parks right by the lawn and garden department and precedes to tell me I can "look around" while he gets his drinking water inside the store. A light pops on in my head...."This is just a big conspiracy for me to buy flowers for the yard!" I am a bit miffed by this..because this is the furthest thought from my mind and I am not in the flower planting mood at all!
What do you do in this situation? Well, I bit my tongue, grabbed a big empty flat, and proceeded to pick out a variety of purple posies! I don't know why I picked purple this year...but it just seemed right to me...I usually pick a variety of colors...but, for this year....I am going purple.....got that yard design thing that I have to live up to!
As the evening advances....after buying the flowers and potting soil and not grumbling a whole lot....we are home and the prospect of planting looms ahead....here is where the rubber meets the road, folks, and I cut loose with the complaining and get really hostile...I am not wanting to plant those flowers at all!
But I did it anyway and made it through almost the whole flat, when my dear hubby took pity on me and finished the last few and sent me back to my couch...I think he got tired of listening to me gripe!
I know I put myself in a bad light with that little story I just told you all...but that is me...I will admit that my attitude about the flower planting gig really sucked..but I was tired ....it had been a long day and I want to do things when I am ready to do them and do not like to be coerced into doing something before I am ready...that is why I went into such a tizzy. My husband knows that about me. Sometimes, I think he puts me to the test...and the other night was one of those times! He doesn't pay any attention to my grumbles....heaven's knows....he has heard them plenty of times! I am like a thunderstorm to him...when all the lightning and crashing thunder is over....he knows the storm will pass and things will be sunny again!
I can go to my yard now, and appreciate the little flowers I planted and the ones he will plant for us....and all the grumbling will seem silly. God has a way of showing us that even when we need a little push to get things done...He will push us or send someone who will....and the end result is usually a blessing! He put my hubby on the job the other night and the end result was a blessing to both of us and our neighbors got some free entertainment listening to me be a grouch about my unwanted planting venture!